Hi.
So a lil about this femme daddy…
I realized I was a daddy type over a decade ago in my late 20’s and have been slowly embracing it since. Once I heard someone refer to me as daddy it strummed a chord that continues to vibrate… the term suited me so I decided to embrace femme daddy b/c of my switch ways and bisexuality, also the 2 words femme & daddy are descriptive, to the point terms that give you an instant idea the contradictory & complimentary nature of my ‘gender’
I usually appear feminine in appearance with longer curly hair, the curves of my definitions, painted nails, cleavage and high heels… sometimes you’ll find me in loose fitting jeans/pants/overalls with paint all over them, athletic tank top, adidas pants, hair pulled back or braided to the side, flat sandals …depending on who is looking at me though they may notice the way I tilt my head sideways, that I open doors, walk on the outside vs inside, the tone in my voice, my directness …I have masculine traits abound that mix and blend well with my feminine
I am a sensual dominant and I find this pairs well with me being a femme daddy. I am currently on that path actualizing the domme in me. I am still in the beginnings of this…and for now the best way to capture it is sensual domme. I do not enjoy inflicting physical pain, scat, humiliation or a slave situation. This I know. I do enjoy obedience, submission to my ways, loyalty, taking care of you when you’re too tipsy rather than take advantage, erotic kinky role play, light rope play, light flogging/spanking, strap on, food play, grinding, edging, controlling your climax and things of the like…. nothing inflicting pain or humiliation. For a long time I assumed that since I wasn’t into pain I couldn’t be a domme, even though many other ways I’ve mine pointed to me being under that label. I have since learned that there are many varieties of a dominant and submissive type personality, and sensual dominants do exist.
I am this way with both women and men and while I don’t require for anyone to call me daddy and play with my silicone, I have had had both genders and sexes do so and I enjoyed that very much…something I find very arousing about the willingness of someone wanting to please me so I’ll please them.. a beautiful give and get. Sometimes I am much more softer( kinder & more submissive) acting and others more serious ( stern, assertive & dominant), that all depends on our chemistry and what I sense you want, or what you explicitly tell me you want.
In regards to this project, and truthfully in general, I compose & tell stories, sometimes I enact them. Sometimes I ramble about a memory or a dream. Short stories and small performance pieces of a funny and/or erotic variety are my typical jam. I approach most of the “bits” on here as phone conversions and/or voicemail message, all in a monologue style. I came of age in the 90’s when phone relationships were a big thing and it has always left an impression on me.
I am doing this for personal fun & entertainment. I am not doing a sponsored podcast or making an income from this project/hobby. If I reach 1 other person or 10,000 that does not matter here… If you blush and giggle that is wonderful, but not my purpose. If you are in a position to donate to my hobby then I thank you kindly. I do and intend to keep paying kindness, good luck, and fortune forward.
I assume this will last for a few months, going into years, but perhaps it will stall after only a few weeks…I have no obligation here to publish, no pressure to produce, this is solely a pet project and that is how I have decided to do this.
This will most likely be a little random, a little dirty, a little funny and a lil…
In closing, femme daddies come in many varieties from femme, butch, cis/non cis women/men, smaller or bigger, some are tops only, some are bottoms… this femme daddy right hurr is a cis woman who is an adaptable switch. She is also a curvy fairly fit multi-racial woman in her early 40’s, in a strange playful mood (hence this post and project) due to covid times, who occasionally likes to play with ropes & paddles and wear silicone cocks, leather collars, and ties…. corsets, 3 inch heels, and eyeliner that doesn’t smudge.
NOTE: Everything I produce is created and owned by me. While I do hope this project arouses the interest and perhaps other parts of dope fellow souls out there, I am rather serious about anything I release to the public and do NOT give permission to use my likeness, my sounds, or my words without my direct written consent.
If you have a question or positive comment about something I created just email holla(@)femmedaddy(dot) com) or msg me on via social media link and ask.