Hi.
So a lil about this femme daddy…
Femme Daddy (FemmeDaddy) is a pen name and an identity I assume. I am not the only Femme Daddy nor the 1st to use this term, there are many of us out here, this site about what femme daddy is for me, it isn’t definitive and there are many ideas and and variations of what a femmedaddy is…I’m not defining, only highlighting my own type.
A little over a decade ago, when I 1st started using the term femme daddy as a username , most people who heard the term didn’t know what quite to make of it, what was i trying to convey, what did this mean about me. In the simplest and most complex terms it means I am a femme daddy…that is I have ‘daddy’ characteristics/energy ( protect, discipline, patient, assertive ) with a feminine attributes ( curvy fit, paint my nails, wear high heels, have wonderful cleavage (: …and all that jazz.).
I take control, command respect, nurture curiosity and reward compliance. Some would call me a dom fem, I prefer Femme Daddy. There is a soft, playful, kind aspect to me that allows me to be rather switch and not solely a dom… yet I have some ways that are serious, stern, and aggressive that will never allow me to be a strict femme….so in-between I find myself and femmedaddy has suited me well throughout the years.
- I’m Switch. I tend to be more Dominant, but not in a demeaning or degrading way, humiliation is not my turn on. Also when I say dominant I don’t only mean in regards to assertiveness but mainly to control and all that falls in-between. I have no problem with being “bottom/submissive”, in fact I rather enjoy that with the right kind of personality that makes me want to please and take care with them…regardless of what our chemistry brings out in me there is always a lil bit of a daddy (teacher/disciplinarian/protector) aspect to me.
- I’m bisexual. I do believe in monogamy if the right chemistry exists with your chosen person , bisexuality does not = polygamy, simply means I am attracted in several ways to both men and women, cis or not. I tend to be most attracted to people who can express their sexual-ness through sight and perhaps words. I’m artsy somewhat so I am naturally inclined towards expression though textures, light, colors, angles, etc. Creativity is a big turn on. I also am a bit of a kinky sapiosexual woman so raw lust and heat delivered through sexy moans, growls, tones, words, stories, sexy dancing, sexy parading, seductive images or straight up to the point hot fucking (yourself or another) will lure me and cause me to consider you.
- On the spectrum of femme/butch I am more femme than butch, both looking and personality, yet I pride myself on my masculine traits. I can kill bugs on my own, hail a cab or uber, rebuild a motorcycle, drive stick shift, play with drums, know how to tie a tie, assert myself, fix minor and not so minor household apparatuses. I am handy. I think I am funny. On another side I am a very good cook, I have a green thumb, love to express myself through dance, appreciate fashion, love to go on nature walks, I don’t hunt or fish for sport or pleasure, have a growing collection of high heels, I know how to heal a burn, I love the texture of silk, I enjoy scented baths with candles. I am sentimental. My hair smells delicious.
This site is meant for entertainment, mainly humor and maybe some ASMR tingles. 😉
I compose & tell stories, from time to time I enact them. Somethings are true, some are made up in my mind. I joke often but never prank, there is a huge difference between the two. Sometimes I ramble about a memory or a dream. Short stories and small performance pieces of a funny and/or erotic variety are my typical jam. Covid quarantine life has me wanting more enriching and/or playful moments with kindred spirits and play in the silver linings that we are now presented with. This will most likely be a little random, a little dirty, a little strange and a lil…
NOTE: Everything I produce is created and owned by me. While I do hope this project arouses the interest and perhaps other parts of dope fellow souls out there, I am rather serious about anything I release to the public and do NOT give permission to use my likeness, my sounds, or my words without my direct written consent.
If you have a question or positive comment about something I created just email / msg me and ask.